Thank you for the insights vanilla. You and I haven't connected directly much- as I'm more of a lurker here, but I know so many people truly value your opinion/experience/ words and I thank you for taking the time to post on my thread. I've read your statements many times through and am digesting them. thanks again.
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16