Ok so the cat is out of the bag. Still though, I would recommend damage control. If someone asks you about her, just smile and say you are not sure. Don't engage in bad mouthing her with friends or family. They may try to bait you in as away to help you release your frustrations but I'd recommend showing them quickly that ou won't be sharing every detail with them. Or any details for that matter.

Share the details here if you need to vent.

Things you say now will haunt you later. And people never forgive, even if you do. She will always be the one who "hurt my buddy Nate", know what I mean? Don't give them any ammo to use against her in case things work out later on.

What plans do you have this weekend? Do you have the princess this weekend? What fun stuff can you do?

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017