Its shittty. I'm over a year now. It doesn't make it any less hard. But each day you take a couple steps. Sometimes the rollercoaster gets you and you fall down, but you have to dust it off, learn and take some more steps.
I just read this.... I think its great advice (from a guy for a guy).... "Let Go! Detach! Be a better you! Continue moving forward with your life. She may catch up.......she may not. If she doesn't you don't want her."
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015