"In trying to be the best me, do I do things like complement her? Make dinner? Laundry?
These would be a 180 for me, but I do not want to pursue. Just trying to be a step higher than civil."

In all your posts, you keep saying these things are 180s for you. How EXACTLY did you used to act and treat her before? If you overdo these things now, she's going to react very badly.

BUT if you do them in very unnoticeable ways to slowly earn back her trust, they will seem like habit and natural.


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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