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I occasionally compliment my W nothing over the top. You know, you look nice today, did you change mascara, nice tush.... Well maybe not the last one but you get the idea. As far as household chores I do mine and the kids and that's it. I like to cook anyway so I usually make more than the kids and I can eat so if she wants to have some, no big deal, if not, no big deal. Don't do it for her reaction. I'm no expert here but have read enough of this to know that if you suddenly start being her indentured servant she will not appreciate the real lasting changes you are making. I would like to hear other opinions from the vets here on this topic.