Thorton appreciate you here. I think you are right and in my hear t I knew I needed this to happen to move forward but I really didn't want it to. That is the reason I have been contemplating bringing it up. I will know for sure if she is honest and I can go through the process. Not knowing still leaves some "what if" in me.
IN the end I prob wont say anything but really tempting.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15