Parents: help me parenting while separated (2)

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Just scheduled a meeting with STBXW for tomorrow night.
She will show up at my place after the kids are asleep.
We will discus the D proposal agreements I sent her last week.
If we agree and sign them she will take them with her when she flies home for Christmas.
After filing the papers D will be a reality.
Right now our interactions are respectful and distant.
Today I sent her an email reporting S9's reaction to her shouting.
I guess we will talk about that tomorrow.
STBXW called me today to tell me about some extra-curricular activities for the kids. Since I kindly protested some weeks ago for her not including me in a meeting with the teachers she informs me and asks for my opinion about everything related to the kids.
I should have thanked her for calling and consulting me today.
I didn't, so will do it personally tomorrow.