Well, I must say, that, although I didn't put her on blast, my closest relatives all know about it. My MIL was one of the first to contact me about it. She's always said I was like the son she never had. My family, is very compassionate however. No one wanted to condemn her. My family is very religious and deep believers in forgiveness. I may have gone off the deep end on her the night I discovered, I just couldn't keep my emotions in check. I apologised for my actions the next day and backed of the ledge. Talking through things is the way I deal with things normally. My family is a great sense of support. I definitely made mistakes in the early weeks. At the time of this writing, we have almost no interactions aside from discussing what is happening with our daughter. It's almost hard for me to even look at her because I know she had lied to me again, and carried on with the affair. She told me when she moved out, that this was to see how we handled separation, not that it would give her open season on this OM. Appreciate your kind words SM34
Me:36 W: 27 D2 T10 M:2.5 Filed D 1/14/16 BD: Sep 15 A Discovered: 11/17/15 She moves out 11/19/15