ILYNILWY and it's done? Gift of 1 month

[Butterc]

Okay, someone on the boards, I think it was SciDad suggests dating oneself. This is in a post to someone else, but I ran with that idea.

Wrote down some positive affirmations, knowing what I want. Then the Improv calls with free tickets to this Sat night's comedian. Usually I just ignore them because of caller ID. When she said it was a Canadian guy who was on MadTV , I was all in. Called some friends to see who wants to join me.

Treat myself to time spent having fun, enjoying friends and family: I wrote that not 15 minutes ago. CHECK!

On the way up the rollercoaster right now.

This was all in my response to how attached I still am. Vets out there... now that he's moved out, do I continue to be validating and upbeat with PMA? Or can I just go dim? I think I'm too invested in him still, so I should go almost dark.