Could she already be involved with someone? I'm a little behind on your sitch although I did read it yesterday. I don't remember if you said she is or isn't.

My hunch says she is. Women don't disrupt the balance until there is at least a prospect but usually a full blown man friend.

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017