I couldn't stand hearing her say she made stuff up because she was hoping it was me on the phone then realized it wasn't. She saw how it affected me even though I just got quiet. I hated that she is hoping she was wrong and it wasn't another man. I know I want to bring it up for her sake but I think it is for me as well. If I just know the truth I want to know how I will feel. I am in the phase of I don't want a relationship with anyone but her even though she has done this to our family. It is crazy to still feel this way.
Maybe I just need to know and also protect my kids feelings.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15
I think you should assume it is true, and leave it at that.
Let things settle down, and see what occurs with D7. I'd imagine she is going to bring this up to her Mom.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
Last edited by Cadet; 12/14/1501:32 PM. Reason: Link
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
