Seems to me reality has not hit for her .... Remind yourself these are her choices and as you both deal with the results of these choices you continue to make hers a bit easier by helping her with the fact she pooped herself. She replied that she did not want to move twice, well you did not want a divorce but that was simply not in your control. Had my W D'd me no way would I have allowed more cake eating .... You are simply enabling her in hopes she wakes up and that will not happen until she feels the loss
If you are cool with the set up of her getting her way ... Notice she is hanging around, pulling your strings and manipulating your good hearted was into what she wants/needs by getting her way here. Would Clint allow a woman to divorce him, stay in his house and continue to see other men? It shows weakness .... You are not throwing her out and punishing her... She made this choice and this is her mess to deal with, she should have made these arangments long ago... Not your circus not your monkeys
