spoke to OW..the 1 he said he has no contact with

[Rain75]

Azzork,

I meant he is hurtful to me in the way he is treating me and speaking to me when he is the one that was just caught lying about his affair having been over.

And no in the past he has not ever said that we need to exchange whatever we have at one anothers homes. He has never banned me from using his account to purchase things. So it makes it final in my mind. Final to him I should say.

Yes he has said many loving things that he stopped saying and feeling so i do get your point. I am trying my best to be logical but my emotions have a mind of their own.

And yes he will do whatever he wants to do as he has done so this entire time.