I guess because when my parents divorced and visitation and CS where established that was not only the end but my dad would tell us the reason we were no longer a family was that my mom filed for D and he knew then they couldn't fix things.

I came here for advice and I have gotten tons. I don't want to be a pushover any more. And I have tried it my way and I see where it's gotten me. So i am going to do my best to take everyones advice and implement it

Thanks

Rain (moi): 40
Ex Fiance: 39
3 kids
On/off again EA & PA
Last BD by ow 12/15
Moved kids and myself back into our own place: 12/15