Or offer to get her a new phone and don't spy anymore. Yes, it's a backslide, pursuing type thing, but it also doesn't start a big argument that would be more detrimental in my view.
And I think you know enough to not need to spy anymore anyway.
I think this is the best solution, but I'm not really an expert....
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