Wait in the home or move out?

[runn79r]

So the posting basically says to stand your ground and don't move out. While normally I agree with that standpoint it simply doesn't work for me as I travel for work and from an insurance perspective it's a pain to leave a house unattended for 4-5 days at a time (among other things). So not staying in the marital space is best for me, it is also the inevitable path I will take if we divorce (my choice).

My question is should I move out of the house all together immediately so she gets the full reality and pain of her situation. Our finances are split, I don't do her any favors etc the only reality she hasn't been exposed to is how difficult it will be to not have her daughter in the same house as her and the conveniences when it comes to coordination, packing bags etc. To be clear we are in separate suites so think of it like having two apartments side by side.

So no, in all the threads I didn't see anything that specifically addressed this, just multiple things that sort of point to in. It says stay in the space and make her move and limit physical interaction. Maybe I missed something, please point it out directly if that's the case.

So that says to me I should get out and continue moving on with my life as I have been doing (and enjoying). I know I'll be fine without the marriage, it's just my preference to keep my family together.

Thanks for the help.