So Sandi's post helped a bit but didn't specifically address the proximity issue.
Yes I did. Are you sure you read all five threads, or just one post?
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I speaking with one of the coaches I've been advised that staying close and focusing on friendship is the best route at this point. What I struggle to understand is finding balance between being a friend and letting them be a cake eater.
That's about the only part I disagree with them. The betrayed H and the wayward W are not going to see "friends" with the same point of view. You are already confused where to draw the line. She is not your friend, she's a liar, a cheater, a betrayer......need I go on?
In some WAW situations, you might could be friends......sort of. But when you have a wayward wife in an A? Forget it. However, that's just my opinion.
There is a time for friendship, but it's not when she's in an active affair with OM.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
