We were engaged not married. So seeing a L doesn't apply to our sitch. I could file for official child support though.
Well theres still more to it than that. What about custody arrangements? These are his kids, right? How will you protect your time with them? How will you guarantee they have health insurance? And so on.
Let me ask you this. What is the reason to NOT file for child support?
Originally Posted By: Rain75
I hate that thought. That its now child support and kid hand offs when last week we were planning our family vacation. It's all so fresh. This new wound over the last. Hurting like i dont know what. Lost.
It [censored]. I get it. Ive been there. To be incredibly content and then have the rug pulled out is so tough.
In my opinion, your priorities should be: 1) protecting your kid's interests 2) starting to rebuild your life as Rain75. And thats it. Stop worrying about H and OW. Let that drama unfold on their watch.
In the meantime, what kind of GAL activities do you have planned?What are you doing for you?
