spoke to OW..the 1 he said he has no contact with

[Rain75]

He is so violently hurtful to me and so sweet to her. It's crazy. How do you not believe what he says when its seems so final. As if he is relieved its out in the open and just wants me to be quiet, care for the kids and let him go on with his fabulous new single life while i suffer in silence.

It's been hard but im glad I've been able to refrain from responding to him.

Thanks for the advice. I have been meaning to find a church. Just been to busy worrying about what he was doing. Now i know so it's time.