It is completely unhealthy. He's a counselor himself so he's very good at detecting "tricks" of that trade and turning it all around. It is impossible. If I suggest that he should do it, it gets turned into "you don't care, you don't listen, you're just not trying", etc.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
