Hi. Im new here too and our situations are similar. The lies when they are still with the op. Im sorry about your pain. I will say that you are better than I am since you have known yet not said anything to her for a year. That haa got to be so hard.
Good luck to you
Rain (moi): 40 Ex Fiance: 39 3 kids On/off again EA & PA Last BD by ow 12/15 Moved kids and myself back into our own place: 12/15