Oh, and two nights ago he sent me a text saying he'd thought a lot about everything I said and he hoped I was having a good day.
Yesterday he called and wanted to let me know that he does not want us to move back to Europe, but if we do he is planning on changing his role in his company and he would be there around a week a month. Had to explain that concerns with moving there is not that I will be flying solo, I already am flying solo when it comes to D, but that I simply don't want to live there and that I won't be able to raise D the way I intended etc.
I'm thinking of a few hours away from the city I currently live in next year. Just got to get my $h!t together first. When we were visiting friends over thanksgiving I realized how nice it is to just walk outside and get into a car and not running around after public transportation. The cost of living would go down to. AND RUNNING OUTSIDE IN NATURE!!! Very different than breathing in smog and dodging people. That alone would make it worth the move.