As for me, I've detached. One really good thing I got from the Marines is the ability to, for the most part, completely turn off emotionally from someone. I don't call her, I don't text her unless it's too ask to speak to my daughter when she's going to bed on the nights that she stays over there. I'll occasionally answer a text if she asks me questions, but remain pretty short and vague. I have a fantastic support system, including my in laws. I have a lot of guys that I can hang out with, and am somewhat off a social butterfly
Me:36 W: 27 D2 T10 M:2.5 Filed D 1/14/16 BD: Sep 15 A Discovered: 11/17/15 She moves out 11/19/15