With my W her years of resentment were bottled up as she said to her self she would just live with it now, until she met someone, a gay male who lit up her life and she started an EA with him. Now has there been any change in your W that maybe a trigger for her?
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016