No on the L. In one of his rants he told me to tell him how much I need monthly to maintain myself and the kids. He already knows the answer as we have been living separately. He's never given me a problem about money except during my pregnancy.
Just because he's never GIVEN you a problem in the past doesnt mean he WONT in the future. What if he spends all of his money on OW? Then where does that leave you?
Id strongly recommend seeing a lawyer so that you can figure out how to protect yourself and your children.
Doesnt mean you need to file for divorce. But you should get something in place, officially, so you arent just trusting him.
