Hi DDay! I have the fishing poles and plenty of bait!

I saw this and it struck a cord:

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She likely sees it completely differently from how you/we see it, and sees you differently from how you see yourself. Only thing to do is what's best for you as an individual and the kids' dad. As much as it hurts, you're on your own path now and that may be permanent. What can you do to take charge and make that a good thing for you and the boys?


I totally agree with the seeing things differently statement. My W is totally convinced that D won't affect the children at all - and that they will be fine with everything. She thinks they will be happier like that. Imagine that. Did I mention that she twists everything?

Keep on keeping on, bother. Right there with you.

There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.