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[vise82]

Hey Isitoolate,

Looks like it was too good to be true. I get home and she tells me the deal was not what she thought it was, price was double.

I just said that it was too bad they advertised it like that.

As for the same beds question, we did this type of hotel/water park stay in the summer and how it worked was W slept in the large bed with the kids and I got the pull out.

For Christmas I am sleeping over with my W at her parents house. Now you got me thinking of how that is going to go with sleeping arrangements. I am expecting same room. but now I am not sure. I could end up in the basement. W hasn't said a word about it. It will be such a reality shock for everyone if we go to separate rooms. If this happens which I am prepared for now, and during Christmas I get the cold shoulder and treatment, I am going to have to change how I am DB. I am going to have to detach more. I am in a holding pattern right now. But way too attached. I see her and I melt. Its like I am falling in love with her again as I see how she is more family focused.

So last night W took S6 to his event, and I watched a movie with youngest. W asked me to do laundry when she was out, and I see she puts her clothes onto the pile, so I just grab the stuff under it and start a load.

She says something about not putting the kids clothes in to wash. Then she tells me she is going to work out. This is new now, but because its not on fixed dates she can just say she is going to work out and leaves. That left me with putting the kids to bed. And then I just stayed on the main floor to watch tv. This is where she normally watches. So she gets home she has the choice now to watch with me or go to the basement. She comes to the room and says if I am going to be watching TV up here I should be playing with the dog like she does. And she goes to the basement.

It was a little bit of a wake up call. Nothing has changed. Maybe she was temp checking with the new years invite. Now she has out of me what I was planning on doing. Now she knows that I was planning to have a party with the kids, and that gives her the option to go out and not worry about a baby sitter.