Hi Bob, did you read either DB or DR my friend? If you have, you'll see that this is just the kind of behaviour to expect from people who have checked out of the M and believe you'll fall in with all their plans to 'move on.' But people can and do reconcile after the most difficult circumstances and you shouldn't lose hope if you want to stand for your marriage.
However, it is important to get some good legal advice and protect your own interests in any future changes that may happen.
Take care x
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus