Wait in the home or move out?

[runn79r]

So Sandi's post helped a bit but didn't specifically address the proximity issue. I speaking with one of the coaches I've been advised that staying close and focusing on friendship is the best route at this point. What I struggle to understand is finding balance between being a friend and letting them be a cake eater.

I would do favors for a friend and help them out with things (help them with a project, fixing their car etc) but in this scenario where do you draw the line of staying in the position of "Mr. Reliable" who she doesn't need to be married to in order to have all the support benefits while she is off getting her relationship fulfilled by another man.

Is it really the best idea to just let them have it both ways and wait for the affair to die?