No response from the group just means it takes time for everyone to see your post and catch up on your thread. I'll admit, it is discouraging whenever a newcomer just stops after just a few posts. So, please stick with us this time, okay?
I think MWD is talking about ultimatums, when she says drawing the line. We encourage setting boundaries. Cadet sent a link, if you will read it, you'll see there is a difference in boundaries and ultimatums. Boundaries are for you and to protect you. It is not to control the other person.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
