Thank you Sotto. I shall definitely check those out.

Yup. I was seeing an IC for something else entirely (anxiety and panic attacks as a result of pursuing legal action against an ex colleague). I had been for two sessions with her when all this happened. So that's what we've been talking about ever since.

She seems very keen for me to draw a line under our M. She keeps referring to him as my 'ex husband' and statistics about two thirds of Ms ending in divorce.

I must admit to feeling slightly annoyed every time she calls him my 'ex husband', but I understand why she's saying it and what she's getting at.


Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017