Originally Posted By: shotgun
A new frock is perfect focus! It will look great on you next time you go out. I too had a back seat to my spouse' career and I am pretty quiet around people that I don't know well. I am however enjoying meeting new people through GAL activities and working out at the gym. I live in a small town and it is pretty hard to meet new people. Keep working on yourself and stay as busy as possible. Think about new hobbies and interests. Praying for you always!


Thank you shotgun.

GAL is amazing, isn't it? What a lifeline.

One of the things I'm really struggling with is the humiliation and shame I'm feeling.

I don't know where to go or what to do with those feelings.

Last edited by focus22; 12/09/15 10:32 AM.

Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017