He shouldn't be able to text you directly whatsoever. You not responding probably doesn't really matter to him all that much. Just the satisfaction that he got to send that message to you (and be pretty certain you go it) is enough.
Instead, click on his name and BLOCK that caller/textor along with sending him the letter I discussed a couple of weeks ago with your firm boundary that you want nothing to do with him until he ends his affair and commits to a recovery plan; and, that if he has to contact you about an emergency involving the children he is to communicate with you through an intermediary. No direct contact whatsoever. It's just too painful and you've got to get on with the rest of your life.
The internet is 90% complaining and entitlement and I hate it because I deserve better!
