Georgia AM. I have wrestled with that for about 3 weeks. Almost went so far as to hire a PI to get definitive proof. But, I felt the proof would just throw me back into that place and that exposing the affair would do more harm than good. The only proof I have, is her phone records prior to Nov. 14th where his number shows up a bunch. As well as another male coworker that I know and in no way, shape or form could have been the OM. She told her mother the first name of the man, and armed with an internet connection, and motivation, I got all his employee data records, property tax records, marriage records, cell phone account from friends at a wireless store I used to run, and his first and last name as well as his golf tee off times, and the Catholic Church he is a Eucharistic Minister at. But, I didn't take pictures of the texts the night I saw them, mostly out of pure shock of what I read and I flew into an anxious wreck. So, I just don't think I've got enough to go to the wife with honestly. Other than my wife admitted she was having an affair, the first name from her mother, and that I know he was married and 2 kids. The rest I had to go all stalkerish to find, although I'm a former Marine, so intel is an important part of any op.
Me:36 W: 27 D2 T10 M:2.5 Filed D 1/14/16 BD: Sep 15 A Discovered: 11/17/15 She moves out 11/19/15