We are trying to make sense of people who just don't make sense. Best best is to get out of wonderland.
I agree with not responding. He will hit rock bottom quicker if you don't enable poor behavior. He needs to face reality and if you respond with loving statements your only empowering him. He needs to come to the conclusion that he is going to lose you. You did great with pushing ahead the legal and financial aspect (and you were a big help to me as well with my situation) now it's time to be selfish and discover what will make you happy.
I think I mentioned this before, but whenever I am snuggling and connecting with my children I always say to myself, I would never want to switch roles with him. Sure they are the ones inflicting pain, and supposedly living it up but at what price? Their values are so distorted right now. We know they can't be happy. It's just a matter of time. But You can move forward with a clear conscience. That's a lot to live for.
What type of GAL activities are you engaged in? I know you have a nice vacation planned. But what about when you get home? Have you thought about volunteer work?
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
