He does this because he can. You allow it. I've been there and it [censored]! !!

If he isn't there on time take them to his parents/sisters and drop them off.

You need court orders that include child support for day care. It will also outline the exact times/days he has the kids so you can plan things for yourself. If he doesn't show then document and drop them off with the in-laws.


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction