my DB Coach had advised me to stay off the boards,
WHY?
Was this explained to you?
Well, because the forums were mostly people who were going through it, and not trained professionals. I could possibly jump into something that may be wrong for my situation before taking the advice of a coach.
Me:36 W: 27 D2 T10 M:2.5 Filed D 1/14/16 BD: Sep 15 A Discovered: 11/17/15 She moves out 11/19/15