Thanks Cadet. I have read DR 2x already. As well as 5LL, Surviving an Affair by Dr. Harley, Love Must Be Tough by James Dobson. I'm a very quick and avid reader. I can see through reading DR some of the things that I have done to lead up to this. Lol, ironically, my DB Coach had advised me to stay off the boards, but I just need a place to vent atm, and maybe journal about my experiences. Detaching has been my goto response with her trysts in the past. I have typically dropped the rope, and then suddenly she would come back. This particular event has me more concerned than usual, primarily because now I have a child involved. It would be one thing if we were still single and she did this. But, I'm a Ride or Die type of person, and once I commit, I don't quit.
Me:36 W: 27 D2 T10 M:2.5 Filed D 1/14/16 BD: Sep 15 A Discovered: 11/17/15 She moves out 11/19/15