Had a long four day weekend where I have done some GAL activities but also been alone. This evening W gave back car. A very brief exchange. I texted a photo of S on his trip to her Dad and hoped he had had a good time with his daughter. When he started talking about they had come for dinner and he loved his daughter but thought she was making a mistake I realized she had taken OM to meet the family. Something two months ago she said she wouldn't do ( they lie!) She had stayed with family friends. I spoke to a couple of friends and agreed to text W briefly saying I didn't know why she had gone throught the theatre of collecting the car with her suitcase only to then go home to collect him! I thought she had said she was tired of lying! She rang me saying she couldn't remember if she had said I or we but anyway it was better not to tell because then I hadn't spent all the time thinking about them. I just briefly said ok, I'm eating, good night. Told parents who were furious with another example of her lies and couldn't believe he is accepted into her family. They urged me to cut with in laws something which I'm not going to do. I know it doesn't make any difference to my situation but just felt like another kick in the teeth. Friends trying to encourage me to forget it and move on. Just feels hard and unfair. Everyone says how well I've done with S for so many years, how I'm too nice but all I can feel at moment is where has it got me? W living with OM and me trying to live each day.
