Please keep in mind that the holidays tend to bring some of them out to play. Keep those expectations at zero for both the Forrester and your xh.
If you don't have anything to share w/them, then keep your communications short and sweet, if they require responses.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
