spoke to OW..the 1 he said he has no contact with

[Rain75]

Tl2...thanks so much:) Im so sorry about yr wife. The way they so easily lie is just craziness to me. Going dark is my first goal. He just text in a snarky way...funny how not a word about my kids.

Uh you haven't asked about them genius. Hes been too busy wallowing in his mistress depression and texting her yet somehow its me.

I did not respond. Maybe later i will send him pics of them. I juat do not want any contact right now. All his texts to her have crushed me

Anyway...thanks for sharing your story with me. And if going dark...detaching and gal is what helped you then i thank you for the advice. Going dark and detaching with kids seems like an oxymoron.

This is so hard. I just want to scream and cry and run away.