Ok,I wont push it. I am trying to just stay out of sight and have no communication with her. This past spring we attended a marriage boot camp(May) and she stated I must be the dumbest woman in the world not to coming running back to you. I thought yup . At that class there was a questionare and one of the questions was would you have a hard time not talking to your spouse. Her answer was yes. I'm sure her thoughts have changed but I'm holding hope that she will miss not being in contact with me. We will see.. I am letting her go at this point. Our circle of friends and family see what she is doing and can't believe it. Another one who has recently done the same thing to her H is accepting her actions even though she knows what our relationship was like. Even she is angry toward me. Go figure.
Anyhow my focus is on me and my daughter right now. I am coming to the conclusion that if she wants to go then she should hit the bricks. I haven't given up but in time I may choose to not want her back. I guess time in a relationship means nothing anymore. I never new there were so many self centered, selfish, narcissistic people in this world. I was taught there is Right and Wrong nothing in between. The values and morals sure have changed in this country. VERY SAD. It will be her loss and she will have to deal with it the rest of her days. Especially her relationship with our daughter.
. At that class there was a questionare and one of the questions was would you have a hard time not talking to your spouse. Her answer was yes. I'm sure her thoughts have changed but I'm holding hope that she will miss not being in contact with me. We will see.. I am letting her go at this point. Our circle of friends and family see what she is doing and can't believe it. Another one who has recently done the same thing to her H is accepting her actions even though she knows what our relationship was like. Even she is angry toward me. Go figure. 