Thank you PP and Mona. But it's been almost a year already. At what point do I accept that he isn't going to "come out of this". At what point do I accept that this is the way things are now. The thing is in family therapy, it was my d who brought up some points.
She said that she "hates" H because of the way he treats me. He laughed at her. He laughed! It was a lot more complicated than that. I don't want my child to defend me, I don't want her to feel in the middle. I wish this board was anonymous because I want to say more. I have an IC appointment on Friday, I will hash it out there.
