Painter, just brought myself up to scratch with your sitch.. Yours and mine seem to be quite similar, we too where also in piecing but he seems to have gone quiet all over again and it feels like history repeating itself.

You are doing so great, and it's so admirable someone giving it a go. Keep doing whatever you can to help you, make you smile. Anything, out with girlfriends, maybe vent with his daughter if that helps.

He sounds very confused, he clearly wants you- a deep sort of love but these ow seem to know how to prey on the vulnerable man. She will be interesting as there's no obligations towards her. But like you say- engaged to another man and sending him selfies- is this really a relationship bound to last?!

Hang in there!!

Me 26 H 25
M 4
T 5
Baby born 4/14
BD: 1/15
EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
ILYBINILWY- 11/15
ILY-1/16
ILYBNILWY 4/16
ILY 6/16
ILYBINILWY 6/16
Baby due 3/17
BD 8/16