what type of consequences can help her realize what she is losing? Boundaries at this time dont seem to hold much weight as she lives 20 miles away. As for him he wont go anywhere. He is layed off all winter and has no money. I have known him my whole life. He is a leach, that will hold on so he can get his hands in our pockets. It is the same scenario he played out with his last girl friend. He has no family here. His two kids will not have anything to do with him because of the physical abuse to their mother and ex girlfriend. He stole the sons SS# and used it, ruined his credit. He's as low a scum bag as they come. Someone you would see on 48hours taking advantage of little old ladies.
