Thanks woundedfool, The remorse I feel is important to me personally. As it may show a little respect for what she has put myself and our D thru. From what I have read on MLC it seems to be described as this transformation, which I am ok with. But if she is this kind of person when she wakes up I dont think I could live with that. Thats not the type of person I want to be married to. But if she changes for the better then I get that and would want to spend the rest of my life with her.
I see divorce has been filed for you, is it final? or is it on hold? Just curious.. With regards to the personal items, it is so far removed from her that personality. Her legacy will be etched in place if this continues on this pathway.
I have been working on GAL these past few weeks, and it is helping alot. My removing myself from the pursuit is benefiting me tremendously. My bad days aren't so bad at this time. Good days are ok, not great. Funny you mentioned this about fixing her. She mentioned this to me last summer in a heated conversation. I get that, and have stopped. She also said she didn't understand how I could be so kind to her thru this. The D if she wants it is on her. Not me at this time.
Something weird. I have two close friends and another friend who's wifes are doing/ going thru the same thing. Two of the three wives have filed for divorce. Must be in the water around here.
