Huddy,
You're doing a great job with this. I'm hoping for a little advise. My D is scheduled to be finalized in 9 days. We still live in the same house. She refused to move out. Yesterday she sent a text saying she is having trouble finding a place she can afford. She doesn't want to rent she wants to buy but there isn't anything in our city she can afford. I'm refi-ing the house to take her off the title, mortgage and to pay her her half of the equity. She is asking if she can stay. I had to ask her "are you asking to stay in the house after the D and loan processing?" She said "What else should I do"

If she D's me I want her out. I'm even feeling this could be another block dragging her to rock bottom so she may come back to the M. I'm not going to let her stay. I'm just not sure how to tell her. Any ideas?


Me 40
WW 41
D 4
S 12
S 14
BD 6.16.2015
W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15
W Filed Divorce 9.14.15
My ring off 11.15.15
D finalized 12.18.15
WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place