Waves of nausea. I have a lot of errands to keep me occupied this afternoon, but feel horrible.

A couple of girlfriends believe that H has gotten himself in deeper with OW than he really wants to. The communication they had certainly shows a lot more excitement on her part than his. He doesn't really reply to it at all.

I'm going to get my L to prepare action and then tell H it's up to him to stay or leave, but that I'm not living in an open M. It's his choice, and I know he wants me to make a decision for him (he's very passive and avoidant), but I won't. I'm not going to let him walk out saying, 'Well, she told me to leave.'

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17