Fogg, thank you, the warmth and understanding is get when my PTSD is triggered is important to my recovery.
I will handling this stuff better next time, I am sure that as Sandi says I post more then in this public forum, I will get openly criticised sometimes. I can choose to manage my reaction better.
Just takes times to get there.
Jellyb, I did as requested and visited U thread. You are observant, I sense some big shifts coming soon for U.
V
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
Thank you Lady V, I see you visited mine too. I will respond there.
There is much to write as sweet sadness is present and tornadoes are brewing...I am thinking in a good way, but feeling vulnerable and a little scared. . . but maybe excited too.
We understood the PTSD trigger too Lady V, this not easy stuff, gentle, gentle.
Much love and light V
I am thinking a DB Forum Christmas Party - mulled wine, christmas mince pies, eggnog and mistletoe for our US contingent, well us southern hemisphere folk well, we will bring the beer and pavlova, and of course dear Lady V lots of cheeeessseeeee.
Well it was a nice lunch, and I wore me boots nilla bit warm but natural coloured boots (how bout try shepplers and the item number 0454H6) and chocolate dress. Chifony over dress and was a op shop special from last year of only $5.
Very quick lunch and off to my arvo shift.
Had an incident with the young horse I'm breaking in which I fried his brains and he ran me over. I'm fine but boy had a headache yesterday bit stiff today.
Hope things are progressing for you.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
But I too get triggered from time to time, but it's been some time since the last time. I'm tying to stand up for me, to not give away my wants and needs to be nice and likeable.
I tend to just comprise myself into a corner, this I will not do anymore. There are ways to ask for needs etc and not have to beg and gravel.
When you come across ways and things that work for you things will fall in place.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
I Googled the boots. Gorgeous, you have inspired me.
V
When it comes to these sorts of things I am the worst enabler ever! I love my boots and boy wanted them for so long too.....
Mind you some of my mates have done the same to me, enabled the whole make up shoes etc. xh2 hated me to have more than one pair of shoes. Now at last count 17 not including slippers, thongs, crocs gum boots and work shoes,
I have added about 6 pairs, then more bling thongs and normal thongs plus boots.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
