Hey, if that's what works for ghost... Post away man! Haha I have no problem at all with that! I just thought if we got him concentrated on "him" a little more it may help?

Everybody is different so find what works and go for it! smile

I also have a disclaimer to add, many things I do and say aren't really "by the book" per say. I don't suggest any of those things when reading my posts. I get the theory an principles behind it. I can typically give advise based on that. I have a bit of a struggle giving myself the same advise! What I've done, got me where I am. Not exactly where I saw myself being at this point, but it allowed me to drop the rope, even if I caused more damage on my way there.

Last edited by Uphill; 12/08/15 02:52 PM.

Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home